Join Tilt Parenting’s unique membership program and get personal support, practical tools, and genuine community to help your life as a parent feel so much better

Each month I open the doors for new people to join this incredible community of parents.

Get on the waitlist and be the first to know when the doors open. (I’ll also send you a few bonuses to hold you over until you can join us.)



The Differently Wired Club is grounded in the values of optimism, hope,
radical acceptance, curiosity, self-reflection, and respect.


If you’re committed to a neurodiversity-affirming
approach to parenting, please join us.

Club membership includes:


Each month begins with a short video (20 minutes) about that month’s theme, including a downloadable PDF support sheet with key takeaways and journal prompts to help you apply the concepts in your own life. (See below for a list of sample themes.)


Live 75-minute calls are held with me and parent coach Margaret Webb on the 3rd Wednesday of each month (2pm ET) to answer questions and provide group coaching. Members can submit questions in advance so they can get the info they need, regardless of whether or not they can attend live. Recordings and chat are available.


Some months we read a parenting book (mostly nonfiction, sometimes memoir), and the author joins us for a live Zoom at the end of the month to discuss the book as a group (see below for a list of past and upcoming books). Other months we’re joined by a thought leader / expert for a insightful, informative conversation. Recordings and chat are available.


Five virtual “office hours” are held each month where members can hang out, chat, connect with other members, and talk about whatever is happening in our worlds. These intimate gatherings are not recorded, and give members a chance to form relationships with others as well as get in-the-moment support. Office hour calls are facilitated by different parent coaches and are offered at a variety of set times so members can plan their attendance ahead.


Members can connect to form friendships, seek advice, problem-solve around challenges, cheer each other on, and ask for accountability on the Membership site forums. The best online communities are ones where participants feel a sense of responsibility for everyone else’s success—together we can do anything.


Members have access to a library of exclusive Club content—monthly videos of bonus masterclasses, past author visits, as well as monthly coaching calls and all previous monthly thematic content. (See below for a look at some of the experts featured in the Club library.)

This is how the shift happens…

Real change takes conscious intention and deliberate implementation.
The Club was designed with these four foundational pillars in place to support this work: 

Get unstuck, ditch the overwhelm, and find confidence, connection, and JOY in parenting your differently wired child

Is the Differently Wired Club a fit for you?


I know how overwhelming it can be to make sense of all of the information coming at us from authors, coaches, therapists, teachers, podcasts, blog posts, and online summits, let alone implement it so our family’s life can improve.

I created the Differently Wired Club to cut through the noise and break it down so you can create a path that works for you and put it into practice.

Tilt Parenting founder, Debbie Reber


  • Have read Differently Wired* and are ready to go deeper
  • Are willing to get uncomfortable in order to examine approaches that aren’t best serving you and your family
  • Are in alignment with Tilt’s values of optimism, inclusion, and possibility
  • Are longing for an authentic community where you can feel safe sharing your journey
  • Can dedicate 30-60 minutes each week to show up for yourself


  • Are looking for quick fixes 
  • Believe your child can be “cured” of their neurodifferences 
  • Are in search of a place to vent about what’s challenging about parenting your child
  • Don’t have time to be a resource and support for others within the community

* Reading (or listening to) Debbie’s book Differently Wired is required so you are familiar with the concepts and are ready to hit the ground running

Click below to take a quick tour inside the Differently Wired Club

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Differently Wired Club Parent Coaches


Debbie Reber, MA, is a parenting activist, bestselling author, podcast host, speaker, the founder and CEO of Tilt Parenting, and the creator of the Differently Wired Club. The Tilt Parenting Podcast is the top-performing podcast for parents, caregivers, educators and professions raising and supporting neurodivergent children with more than 4 million downloads. A certified Positive Discipline trainer and a regular contributor to Psychology Today and ADDitude Magazine, Debbie’s most recent book is Differently Wired: A Parent’s Guide to Raising an Atypical Child with Confidence and Hope. In November 2018, she spoke at TEDxAmsterdam, delivering a talk entitled Why the Future Will Be Differently Wired. In the summer of 2020, she co-created the Parenting in Place Masterclass series. Read more about Debbie here.


Margaret Webb is the mom of a 18-year-old son who is on the autism spectrum, a former elementary school educator, and for the past 10 years, has been a certified master life and parenting coach. She weaves together her professional and personal experience with the coaching tools, educational expertise, and parenting strategies she has in her toolbox in order to help parents shift from feeling isolated, anxious, and controlling to feeling more content, confident, and empowered. Learn more about Margaret here.


Sheryl Stoller is a PCI Certified Parent Coach® who has devoted herself to coaching overwrought parents of children whose abilities, sensibilities, and behaviors go beyond expectations (gifted, twice/multi-exceptional) since 2009. This is a personal journey as well as an academic and professional one for Sheryl. She is deeply gratified to serve parents the way she had needed when her children were young. Sheryl integrates many fields of knowledge and training into her coaching. Most recently, she is receiving her Somatic Attachment Therapy Certification; and is a Positive Intelligence (PI) Mental Fitness Coach, through Shirzad Chamine out of Stanford University. Sheryl Co-Leads two communities of practice for PI – Parents and Families, and Neurodiversity; and has received rave reviews for her customization of PI for her “Aligned Parents” and “Get Mental and Emotional Fitness” Group programs for 2E parents. Connect with Sheryl at:


Zach Morris is a thought leader in education. He is committed to helping people increase compassion, collaboration, and learning. Zach supports individuals, families, and organizations who aim to develop a greater sense of safety and empowerment in themselves, in their relationships, and in their communities. Gently guiding humans through the resistance they encounter is at the core of Zach’s work. He is inspired by the science of how people learn and change, and he aims to translate this to help individuals and communities improve awareness, communication, and structural support. Zach has 10+ years experience in the classroom, ranging from inner-city public school to rural therapeutic boarding school, and from non-traditional private school to individual co-op homeschool. Zach now serves as a learning consultant and communication coach, and he is most at home in the mountains of Montana, where he lives and works. Learn more about Zach here.

Past Themes

Virtual Book Club Reads (previous & upcoming)

Highlights from the Club’s expert library

Tina Payne Bryson

Zach Morris

Blake Boles

Micki Boas

Barry Prizant

Phyllis Fagell

Adele Lafrance

Hunter Clarke-Fields

Janine Halloran

Casey O’Roarty

Devorah Heitner

Susan Stiffelman

Ned Johnson

John Duffy

Mark Bertin

Audrey Monke

Mona Delahooke

Mercedes Samudio

Amanda Stern

Nicole Tetreault

Seth Perler

Simone Davies

Ann Douglas

Stephannie Weikert


How does the Differently Wired Club membership work?

Membership clubs are designed to provide people with ongoing support and community with like-minded people all working toward the same goals. For the Differently Wired Club, which first began in October 2019, membership fees are charged monthly and you can remain in the Club as long as you like (and as long as you’re paying the monthly fee). 

How much does the Differently Wired Club cost?

Club membership is $47 / month. Need-based scholarships are available (click here to learn more).

What is the time commitment?

You’ll want to set aside around 30-60 minutes each week, to do things like listen to a masterclass, participate in the Q&A call, and so on. I consciously designed this program so parents can participate even if they have very little (or any) free time. The real work happens as you’re living your life and you become more aware, conscious, and intentional.

I can't attend the live calls. Will I still get value from the program?

Absolutely. All of the live Q&A/Coaching calls and the Virtual Book Club author visits are recorded and transcribed, so you can read or listen to them on your own schedule. For the Q&A /Coaching calls, each month you’ll have the opportunity to submit questions in advance of the call, so I’ll answer those whether you’re live with us or not. The private forums are also a great, and safe, way to ask for support around specific challenges.

How will I access the course materials?

The membership materials are accessible through a private website, and all materials—the video lessons (audio, video, and transcripts), the PDF worksheets and “homework” assignments, and recorded Q&A calls are available there. Monthly Q&A calls and virtual book clubs are held via Zoom and simultaneously streamed in a private Facebook group. Virtual office hours take place in a Zoom “room” and are not recorded.

Will I have access to content from previous months?

Yes, no matter when you join the Differently Wired Club, you will have access to all of the content from previous months, which you can review and consume at any time. There is no “order” in which to do the classes, so you can jump around and dive into the themes that most resonate with you.

How much personal attention will I receive?

While this is a group program, the monthly Q&A calls are designed to answer your specific questions and provide group coaching, and the 5 monthly virtual office hours are wonderful opportunities to share, get advice, and be in a safe space with others who can relate to what you’re going through. Lastly, the private community discussion board is a safe place for you to share challenges and seek resources and feedback.

How do I cancel my membership?

Your membership in the Differently Wired Club is based on a monthly subscription, which you can cancel at any time. To cancel your membership, fill out this form.

Terms & Conditions

​Membership in the Club is based on a monthly subscription. Your membership will officially begin on the first of the month after joining, at which time you’ll have immediate access to all of the materials of the Club — videos, downloadable PDFs, discussion groups, and more — on the Differently Wired Club’s learning platform. You’ll receive an email with login information after registering.

Membership can be cancelled at any time. When members leave, their membership is good through the end of the month, and they have the opportunity to download any material before leaving the group. There are no refunds.


Here’s what Club members are saying…

So often, the days are filled with storms. This class has been my anchor. It is structured in such a way that each theme is easily applied to my unique situation. It allows me to be mindful and self-reflective first, and secondly expand out to the community, which always brings about connection, understanding, and growth.

Without even a second thought, Debbie supported my involvement in the Club at a time when I needed it most. She supported me in both word and deed. Her openness to my participation on my own terms sets the example of what we should be doing with our kids, what the world of us should be doing with each other. Always the skeptic, when I started tuning in to her podcast at the beginning of the pandemic, I had no idea how life changing it would be. Through the Club I met the community I had been looking for.



The content is spot on and so helpful and I really appreciate the flexibility in accessing the courses; each week has an option to re-watch the video, download an audio file and/or download an PDF transcript, which allows me to experience the course fully and in my time.

Debbie, thank you so much for all you give to parents like me of differently wired children. This Club is just so supportive, positive and full of practical take homes that we can try straight away in our families. I appreciate being part of it so much and would thoroughly recommend it to other parents. 

I love being a part of this club. The monthly themes/focus with the related masterclass and live coaching sessions are excellent. I always learn something new that I can apply to my own personal growth and parenting my 11 year old daughter with greater love and understanding. I feel so much less alone and more hopeful about parenting by being a part of this group!

Mission accomplished! I joined the Club overwhelmed, frightened and (probably) on the verge of a mental health crisis. I found the support I needed to be in this unbelievable position that (at the moment at least) I don’t need you any more! We are in a good place. We are happy and thriving. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

I love the people in my life and their neurotypical children, but their advice and oversimplification can be grating. My child isn’t going learn by me letting him fall; he will dangerously seek this sensory experience again and again. My son isn’t cutting in line; he doesn’t spatially understand where the front and back are. But I can feel safe in this club I am with people who get it, are supportive, and have ideas that are actually helpful.  I also appreciate how well thought out and organized everything is to appeal to my own diverse parenting needs.


The Club supports me in intentionally shifting how I show up for myself and for my child. It presents accessible, engaging and relevant themes that positively impact my daily life, and fosters a sense of solidarity with other families that are on parallel journeys with their DW children.

This club has taught me that in order to take care of my kids, I need to first take care of myself. I highly recommend the Coaching Calls and Discussion boards, where I frequently ask questions and get support from a like-minded community. Makes this journey of being a caregiver to a differently wired child a little less scary and lonely.

There are so many awesome books, podcasts, articles, and online summits out there, but the information overload can feel sometimes paralyzing. The Club makes small goals feel manageable and realistic, along with a community of people working through similar challenges. I find it also helps me process the journey I’m on much more cheaply than therapy.

Lauren R.

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