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TILT Templates: Daily Tools That You Can Use To Support Your Child (and You!)

With this bonus, I’ve included templates, sample contracts, check sheets, and more for over 8 categories including school, goal setting, planning and organizing, vacations, screen time. it’s taken me many years and a lot of experimenting to develop these tools and I’m giving them all to you to use as is or adapt for your unique situation.

Asher and I use the templates inside every single day, so whether you need a screen time planner to help with frustrations around the iPad or you want to help your child prioritize weekly tasks with my Week-at-a-Glance PDF, these are going to be the go-to templates to get things moving more smoothly in your daily life.

The Differently Wired Digital Resource Guide

Interested in the book, expert, or article that I referenced in Chapter 2? Want to hear my original podcast interview that I mentioned in Tilt 12?

I’ve got you covered.

I have compiled every single resource mentioned in the book and created a special web page where you can easily access—with just one click—all of the articles, research, podcasts, blogs, and experts included within Differently Wired. Broken down by chapter and simple-to-navigate, this guide will literally save you hours of time.

Cheat Sheets & Scripts

Have you ever found yourself in a tough spot with your child at school, in public, around family, etc. where you didn’t know what to say or how to handle it?

Believe me, I’ve been there. 

Through trial and error and years of seeking out guidance from therapists, experts, and coaches, I developed this conversation guide that I still use even now when I find myself in a difficult situation and need some help getting the (right) words out.

This Cheat Sheet will give you accessible, specific language and phrasing you can use when you have to respond to a teacher, another parent, a friend, or a family member.

Differently Wired Virtual Book Club

How many times have you read a book and felt confused about how to apply it to your situation, needed more input, or just wanted to know how something was relevant in your life?

You get that chance.

With your pre-order, you’ll get access to a live, virtual 4-week book club where I’ll be sharing additional behind-the-scenes and tips and tools that I use related to certain aspects of the book, as well as time to ask questions and learn from other parents in the same situation as you. And even if you can’t attend live, you’ll have access to all 4 recordings. Book club programs like these are usually a few hundred dollars, but as early buyers of the book, you’ll get to participate for free.

Buy 3 or More Copies and Receive:

In addition to all of the above bonuses, receive this limited edition POSSIBILITY OVER FEAR mug when you purchase 3 or more copies of Differently Wired. I designed this mug to be a daily reminder and touchstone for you so you can reset and be open and curious about the possibilities for you, your child, and your family. A positive mantra + coffee or tea = win win.




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Today millions of kids are stuck in a world that doesn’t respect, support, or embrace who they really are—these are what Deborah Reber is calling the “differently wired” kids, the one in five children with ADHD, dyslexia, Asperger’s, giftedness, anxiety, sensory processing disorder, and other neurodifferences. Their challenges are many. But for the parents who love them, the challenges are just as hard—struggling to find the right school, the right therapist, the right parenting group while feeling isolated and harboring endless internal doubts about what’s normal, what’s not, and how to handle it all.

But now there’s hope. Written by Deborah Reber, a bestselling author and mother in the midst of an eye-opening journey with her son who is twice exceptional (he has ADHD, Asperger’s, and is highly gifted), Differently Wired is a how-to, a manifesto, a book of wise advice, and the best kind of been-there, done-that companion.

On the one hand it’s a book of saying NO, and how it’s time to say no to trying to fit your round-peg kid into society’s square holes, no to educational and social systems that don’t respect your child, no to the anxiety and fear that keep parents stuck. And then it’s a book of YES. By offering 18 paradigm shifts—what she calls “tilts”— Reber shows how to change everything.

What thought leaders are saying

Differently Wired will help parents of children who think differently to accept their child for who they are and facilitate their successful development.

Temple Grandin, PhD

Raising a ‘differently wired’ kid can feel like venturing out in unfamiliar territory without a map or a guide. Debbie Reber is the friend you need to navigate this terrain — not just offering practical tips for parenting kids with autism, ADHD, dyslexia and other conditions, but helping you think about your child’s atypical mind in ways that will enable you to help them unlock their unique potential. This is a bracingly honest, beautifully written, and quietly groundbreaking book.

Steve Silberman, author, "NeuroTribes: The Legacy of Autism and the Future of Neurodiversity"

Differently Wired is one mother’s clarion call for moving to action, based on a deep understanding of children who are neurodiverse, and therefore, who think, learn and at times, behave differently. Debbie Reber provides practical advice on a broad range of topics that will be a treasure trove for parents who are desperately seeking guidance in understanding and best supporting their neurodiverse child. This is a wonderfully engaging and much needed book  that I will enthusiastically recommend to so many parents and professionals I meet on a regular basis.

Dr. Barry Prizant, Barry M. Prizant, Ph.D., CCC-SLP Adjunct Professor, Brown University Author of Uniquely Human: A Different Way of Seeing Autism

Deborah Reber approaches the subject of raising a neurodiverse child with the diligence and depth of an investigative reporter and the passion (and compassion) of a parent-advocate, which she definitely is. This book offers parents a treasure trove of practical advice to help them advocate and navigate their personal journeys with their differently-wired kids along the often challenging road less traveled.

Tom Ropelewski, filmmaker, "2e: Twice Exceptional" and "2e2: Teaching the Twice Exceptional"

Differently Wired offers an insightful, compassionate framework for empowering parents to rethink how they view neurodiverse learners. Building on the premise we should celebrate our children’s uniqueness instead of apologizing for it, Deborah Reber provides real tools and practical advice for parents to confidently support their child’s journey, not only at school but also at home and in life.

Amanda Morin, Writer/Expert at and author of "The Everything Parent's Guide to Special Education"

Differently Wired is a comprehensive and practical approach to parenting a unique and complex population of children. Twice-exceptional children present parents with a plethora of challenges (and joys) which the author addresses with gusto. There are other titles written on this topic, but this in particular, packs significant punch and is a ‘must read’ for all parents raising children with multiple exceptionalities.

Dr. Michael Postma, EdD, interim director of SENG

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Deborah Reber is a New York Times bestselling author, life coach, and speaker who moved her career in a more personal direction in 2016 when she founded TiLT Parenting, a website, weekly podcast, and online community for parents like her who are raising differently wired children. The TiLT Parenting Podcast has grown to be a top podcast in iTunes’ Kids and Family category, with more than 250,000 downloads and a slate of guests that includes high-profile thought leaders across the parenting and education space.

Prior to launching TiLT and writing Differently Wired, Debbie spent fifteen years writing inspiring books for women and teens, including Doable: The Girls’ Guide to Accomplishing Just About Anything (Beyond Words/Simon Pulse 2014), Chill: Stress-Reducing Techniques for a More Balanced, Peaceful You (Simon Pulse 2008), and In Their Shoes: Extraordinary Women Describe Their Amazing Careers(Simon Pulse 2007).

Debbie moved from Seattle to Amsterdam, the Netherlands in 2013, where she currently lives with her husband Derin and homeschools her 13-year-old son, Asher. To learn more about Debbie, visit her official author and speaker website.