Doors open this week only: January 25 – January 29

Do you want to get out of stuckness, overwhelm, and isolation and find confidence and true joy in parenting your differently wired child?

Are you finding yourself…


    • Overwhelmed with the reality of remote/hybrid learning and managing everyone’s needs?
    • Craving more peace in your daily life but can’t see a path to getting there?
    • Devouring everything you can to learn how to support your child but rarely see results?
    • Living with the sense that you have no control over any aspect of your life?
    • Burned out because you’re neglecting your self-care and wellness?
    • Feeling like you don’t know where to focus your energies?
    • Struggling with feelings of isolation and the sense that no one else gets how hard things are?

Then the Differently Wired Club is for you. It’s a unique membership community featuring:


      • A hands-on and personal approach
      • A supportive community of parents like you
      • Live group coaching calls
      • Twice-monthly virtual office hours
      • Monthly book club featuring virtual author visits
      • Game-changing tools and strategies
      • Accountability

I’m Debbie Reber. And if you’re part of the TiLT Parenting tribe, you know I’m not just the creator of TiLT and the author of Differently Wired, but I’m also mom to a 16-year-old differently wired son. I’m in the trenches daily. I’m learning from the same experts you are. 

I know how overwhelming it can be to make sense of all of the information coming at us from authors, coaches, therapists, teachers, podcasts, blog posts, and online summits, let alone implement it so our family’s life can improve.


I created the Differently Wired Club to cut through the noise and break it down so you can create a path that works for you and put it into practice. 

This is how change happens…

Real change, the kind that lasts and truly transforms our day to day lives, takes conscious intention and deliberate implementation. I designed the Differently Wired Club with these four TiLT pillars as the foundation for achieving this. 

Here’s what Club members will get each month:


Each month begins with a short video about that month’s theme, including a downloadable PDF support sheet with key takeaways and journal prompts to help you apply the concepts in your own life. (See below for a list of past and upcoming themes.)


Live 75-minute calls are held with me and parent coach Margaret Webb on the 3rd Wednesday of each month to answer questions and provide group coaching. Members have the opportunity to submit questions in advance so they can get the info they need, regardless of whether or not they can attend live. Recordings and group chat are available the day after the call.


Each month we’ll read a book aimed at parents of differently wired children, and we’ll have a live call toward the end of the month to discuss the book as a group, in most cases directly with the author. See below for a list of the books we’ll be reading from February 2021 through July 2021.


I’ve recently added informal “office hours” each month where members can join me in my Zoom room to hang out, chat, connect with other members, and talk about whatever is happening in our worlds. These intimate gatherings are not recorded, and give members a chance to form relationships with others as well.


Members can connect to form friendships, seek advice, problem-solve around challenges, cheer each other on, and ask for accountability on the Membership site forums. The best online communities are ones where participants feel a sense of responsibility for everyone else’s success—together we can do anything.



1: Access to 16 months of content

As soon as you join, you’ll get instant access to 16 months worth of exclusive Club content—monthly videos; bonus masterclasses with experts including Dr. Devorah Heitner (Screenwise), Phyllis Fagell (Middle School Matters), Allison Carmen (The Gift of Maybe), Zach Morris (Alive at Learn); recorded coaching calls, and more, on themes including: accepting our children’s timelines, forging a path and plan for your family, tackling areas of least satisfaction, reframing and “flipping the script,” self-care, and more. You’ll also get access to replays of author visits from Dr. Barry Prizant, Susan Stiffelman, and Mona Delahooke.

2: Differently Wired companion workbook

You’ll receive a 60-page downloadable PDF companion workbook for Debbie’s book Differently Wired: Raising an Exceptional Child in a Conventional World, with exercises and prompts to apply the strategies and key takeaways in your own family.


Sneak peek inside the Club…







Is the Differently Wired Club right for you?


  • Have read Differently Wired* and are ready to go deeper
  • Are willing to get uncomfortable in order to examine approaches that aren’t best serving you and your family
  • Are in alignment with TiLT’s values of optimism, inclusion, and possibility
  • Are longing for an authentic community where you can feel safe sharing your journey
  • Can dedicate 30-60 minutes each week to show up for yourself



  • Are looking for quick fixes 
  • Believe your child can be “cured” of their neurodifferences 
  • Are in search of a place to vent about what’s challenging about parenting your child
  • Don’t have time to be a resource and support for others within the community


* Reading (or listening to) Differently Wired is a strongly recommended prior to joining so you are familiar with the concepts and are ready to hit the ground running

Past & Upcoming Monthly Themes Include:

Managing Your Energy

Reframes & Script Flipping

Fluency & Tricky Behavior

Acceptance for Your Child’s Timeline

Sparking Joy

Showing Up

Summer Expectations & Planning

What Is / Isn’t Working

Upcoming Books for the Virtual Book Club


Includes conversation with Katherine Reynolds Lewis



Includes conversation with Hunter Clarke-Fields



Includes conversation with Tina Payne Bryson



Includes conversation with Mark Bertin



Includes conversation with Ned Johnson




Includes conversation with Adele Lafrance

Here’s what Club members are saying…

So often, the days are filled with storms. This class has been my anchor. It is structured in such a way that each theme is easily applied to my unique situation. It allows me to be mindful and self-reflective first, and secondly expand out to the community, which always brings about connection, understanding, and growth.


The Club supports me in intentionally shifting how I show up for myself and for my child. It presents accessible, engaging and relevant themes that positively impact my daily life, and fosters a sense of solidarity with other families that are on parallel journeys with their DW children.

The Club has helped me to focus on one thing at a time in my differently wired parenting journey. There are so many awesome books, podcasts, articles, and online summits out there, but the information overload can feel sometimes paralyzing. The Club makes small goals feel manageable and realistic, along with a community of people working through similar challenges. I find it also helps me process the journey I’m on much more cheaply than therapy.

Lauren R.

The content is spot on and so helpful and I really appreciate the flexibility in accessing the courses; each week has an option to re-watch the video, download an audio file and/or download an PDF transcript, which allows me to experience the course fully and in my time.


Debbie, thank you so much for all you give to parents like me of differently wired children. This Club is just so supportive, positive and full of practical take homes that we can try straight away in our families. I appreciate being part of it so much and would thoroughly recommend it to other parents. 


This club has taught me that in order to take care of my kids, I need to first take care of myself. I highly recommend the Coaching Calls and Discussion boards, where I frequently ask questions and get support from a like-minded community. Makes this journey of being a caregiver to a differently wired child a little less scary and lonely.


I love being a part of this club. The monthly themes/focus with the related masterclass and live coaching sessions are excellent. I always learn something new that I can apply to my own personal growth and parenting my 11 year old daughter with greater love and understanding. I feel so much less alone and more hopeful about parenting by being a part of this group!


Your Differently Wired Club Guides


Debbie Reber is a parenting activist, New York Times bestselling author, keynote speaker, and the founder of TiLT Parenting, a top podcast, community, and educational resource for parents raising differently wired children. A certified Positive Discipline trainer and a regular contributor to Psychology Today and ADDitude Magazine, Debbie’s newest book is Differently Wired: Raising an Exceptional Child in a Conventional World. In November 2018, she spoke at TEDxAmsterdam, delivering a talk entitled Why the Future Will Be Differently Wired. Read more about Debbie here.


Margaret Webb is the mom of a 17-year-old son who is on the autism spectrum, a former elementary school educator, and for the past 10 years, has been a certified master life and parenting coach. She weaves together her professional and personal experience with the coaching tools, educational expertise, and parenting strategies she has in her toolbox in order to help parents shift from feeling isolated, anxious, and controlling to feeling more content, confident, and empowered. Learn more about Margaret here.


How does the Differently Wired Club membership work?

Membership clubs are designed to provide people with ongoing support and community with like-minded people all working toward the same goals. The Differently Wired Club first began in October 2019, and the membership doors are open only three times a year: late-September, late-January, and late-May. Membership fees are charged monthly and you can remain in the Club as long as you like (and as long as you’re paying the monthly fee). 

How much does the Differently Wired Club cost?

Club membership is currently $47 / month. The cost may increase over time, but members will be grandfathered in at whatever the rate is when they join. So no matter how much the monthly membership fee increases, you will never pay more than your joining rate as long as you remain a member. 

What is the time commitment?

You’ll want to set aside around 30-60 minutes each week, to do things like listen to a masterclass, participate in the Q&A call, and so on. I consciously designed this program so parents can participate even if they have very little (or any) free time. The real work happens as you’re living your life and you become more aware, conscious, and intentional.

I can’t attend the live calls...will I still get value from the program?

Absolutely. All of the live Q&A calls are recorded and transcribed, so you can read or listen to them on your own schedule. And each month you’ll have the opportunity to submit questions in advance of the call, so I’ll answer those whether you’re live with us or not. The private forums are also a great, and safe, way to ask for support around specific challenges.

How will I access the course materials?

The membership materials are accessible through a private website, and all materials—the video lessons (audio, video, and transcripts), the PDF worksheets and “homework” assignments, and recorded Q&A calls are available there for viewing and downloading. Monthly Q&A calls and virtual book clubs are held via Zoom and simultaneously streamed in a private Facebook group. Virtual office hours take place in a Zoom “room” and are not recorded.

Will I have access to materials from previous months?

Yes, no matter when you join the Differently Wired Club, you will have access to all of the content from previous months, which you can review and consume at any time. There is no “order” in which to do the classes, so you can jump around and dive into the themes that most resonate with you.

How much personal attention will I receive?

While this is a group program, the monthly Q&A calls are designed to answer your specific questions and provide group coaching, and the virtual office hours (twice-monthly) are wonderful opportunities to share, get advice, and be in a safe space with others who can relate to what you’re going through. Lastly, the private community discussion board is a safe place for you to share challenges and seek resources and feedback.

I’m not on social media. Can I still participate in the Club community?

Absolutely. The membership platform has an active discussion board where membership share resources, get advice, update the group on challenges and success, and more. 

What if I determine the Differently Wired Club isn’t for me or I’m ready to leave? Can I cancel my membership?

Your membership in the Differently Wired Club is based on a monthly subscription, which you can cancel at any time. You will have the opportunity to download the material from the months you were in membership before you are removed from the group. To cancel your membership, simply email Debbie to let her know.

How long will the Differently Wired Club run?

The Differently Wired Club is an ongoing community with continual monthly support that began in October 2019. While I can’t predict how long the Club will continue, I’m committed to running it at least through October 2021

What are the terms & conditions for purchasing?

​Membership in the Club is based on a monthly subscription. Your membership will officially begin on the first of the month after joining, at which time you’ll have immediate access to all of the materials of the Club — videos, downloadable PDFs, discussion groups, and more — on the Differently Wired Club’s learning platform. You’ll receive an email with login information after registering.

Membership can be cancelled at any time. When members leave, their membership is good through the end of the month, and they have the opportunity to download any material before leaving the group. There are no refunds.

Ready to join us?

If you’re ready to be a part of our community, I invite you to

Join now for $47 / month

Open enrollment ends at
11:59pm PT January 29

Working with this group of incredible, committed parents is my great joy—I hope to see you there.

With gratitude,



Enrollment open Monday, January 25 – Friday, January 29, 2021

This is a monthly charge—you can cancel at any time. There are no refunds. 


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